Are you happy with your life?.....Think twice.....
Are you committed to the work you do?
These are the questions which should be answered or at least a deep thought should be given to them..............these questions influence our lifestyle, thinking and many more aspects of life which are utmost important.
If the answers are on negative side try to find out possible reasons for the same. Its not too difficult..............but finding the solutions for the problem can turn to be difficult, as the case with me.
I am sad because others are happy.............such a bullshit, isn't it!
....After analysis I found that when I encounter any person who is happy(at least for that moment),
I usually try to find the reason behind his/her happiness(it can due be good grades, any prize or participation etc.). Now comes the main factor. After that I compare this situation with mine............ and tend to critisize myself by considering that why shouldn't I had done such a work....... by doing I could also be satisfied........
I am really fed up with this...............due to this crude thinking I am living in tension nearly all the time. This also hampers my performance................ I don't know how to control this..........
A second thought --> Is it good to have this kind of thinking? Does it always retards your performance...........think!!
Answer sometimes comes to be no............it means anger ans frustration in someone sometimes does(or forces you to do) that work which you can only think of...........
Now the question comes how to balance between these two thoughts( as both are bound to come and they influence one's life some or the other day)?..............
Try, as I am trying................
(PS : if you have any contradiction or suggestion please comment me...........thanks!!)
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